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I. EXPECT YOUR PLANS TO BE INTERUPTED. (18)
(1) Erusim (engagement, betrothal): legally the couple was
married, but not living together, have not consummated the relationship. The
erusim could last as much as 12 months. Tested fidelity, integrity. In order to
break the engagement you had to get divorced.
In our
culture you just say "let’s call it off."
(2) Nisuin (Marriage ceremony itself)
Joseph was planning on marrying his sweetheart, drawing up
house plans, carving their marriage bed...BIG PLANS.
James 4:13-15 Now listen, you who say, "Today or tomorrow we will go
to this or that city, spend a year there, carry on business and make
money." [14] Why, you do not even know what will happen tomorrow. What is
your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes.
[15] Instead, you ought to say, "If it is the Lord’s will, we will live
and do this or that."
Pro
19:21 Many are the plans in a man's heart, but it is the LORD's purpose that
prevails.
II GET GOD’S TAKE ON THE INTERUPTION
(1) He got to marry his sweetheart.
(2) He was honored to have been chosen to raise God’s only Son.
Consider God’s take Joseph did! Verse 20)
(1) PRAY:
I Thess. 5:17 pray
continually; 18 give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will for
you in Christ Jesus.
James 5:13 Is any one
of you in trouble? He should pray.
(2) PERSPECTIVE: Put the interruption in proper
perspective.
Luke 12:22 "Therefore I tell you, do not worry about
your life, what you will eat; or about your body, what you will wear. 25 Who of you by worrying can add a single hour
to his life?
Matt. 6:34 Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will
worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.
(3) PROVIDENCE: God is in control. He still has your hairs
numbered.
Duet.32:4 He is the Rock, his works are perfect, and all his
ways are just. A faithful God who does no wrong, upright and just is he.
Is.55:8,9 "For my thoughts are not your thoughts,
neither are your ways my ways," declares the Lord.
9 "As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my
ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts.
Ps. 145:17 The Lord is righteous in all his ways and loving
toward all he has made.
Prov. 5:21 For a man's ways are in full view of the Lord,
and he examines all his paths.
Rom. 8:28 And we know that in all things God works for the
good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.